Plan your 2026!
What becomes possible when touch is slower, clearer, and more intentional?
This retreat is an invitation to expand how you connect-through touch that is confident, consensual, and deeply attuned. Over six immersive days, you’ll explore new ways of giving and receiving pleasure and touch that don’t rely on performance or penetration, but instead on presence, sensitivity, and choice.
Participants leave with a broader, more creative relationship to touch and eroticism: more ease in their hands, more clarity in their communication, and more confidence both as a giver and a receiver. Whether in intimate relationships or professional settings, this work opens up new pathways for connection, pleasure, and trust-rooted in the body, not scripts.
This is about becoming fluent in touch, so you’re no longer doubting, rushing, or defaulting, but choosing.
Erotic Massage & Conscious Touch for Queer Men is a 5-day immersive training for queer men–identifying people. This course explores touch, presence, and sensuality as skilled, consensual, and embodied practices. Through a deep dive into anatomy, diverse massage techniques, and daily embodied practice—including giving and receiving two massages a day—participants build confidence, sensitivity, and range in both giving and receiving touch.
This training is designed for people who wish to offer massage and sensual touch professionally, as well as those who want to deepen intimacy, connection, and pleasure in their personal and relational lives.
Training Goals
By the end of the training, participants will:
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Develop a strong foundation in consent, communication, and boundaries
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Gain working knowledge of physical, genital, and energetic anatomy
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Learn and practice Eastern and Western massage approaches, such as Swedish, Thai, Shiatsu, and related modalities
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Understand how intention, presence, and attention influence the quality and impact of touch
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Build confidence in adapting touch for injuries, sensitivities, trauma histories, and accessibility needs
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Explore different expressions of erotism and sensuality, without a single goal or outcome
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Increase skill and comfort in both giving and receiving, across different partner dynamics and contexts
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Cultivate daily practices that prepare the mind, nervous system, and body for physical presence and service
Schedule
Day 1
Welcome
Arrival & Check in
Opening circle and container setting
Defining scope: therapeutic, sensual, and erotic touch
Introduction to the space, the people, and the week
Day 2
Foundations of Touch & Consent
Consent, communication, boundaries, and negotiation
Basics of presence, pacing, and quality of touch
Introductory partner practice
Day 3
Anatomy & Embodied Awareness
Morning embodied practice
Physical and energetic anatomy
Genital anatomy in the context of massage and touch
Partner practice focused on listening and responsiveness
Day 4
Massage Techniques & Traditions
Morning practice: intention and embodied focus
Western massage styles (e.g., Swedish-based techniques)
Eastern massage styles (e.g., Thai- and Shiatsu-inspired approaches)
Partner practice integrating multiple techniques
Receiving as a skilled and intentional practice
Day 5
Sensuality, Adaptation & Range
Morning practice: state-setting and presence
Exploring different sensual and erotic qualities in touch
Adapting massage for injuries, limitations, or specific conditions
Working with different partner dynamics and needs
Extended practice sessions (giving and receiving)
Day 6
Integration, Receiving & Closure
Morning practice: receptivity and integration
Group reflection, integration, and closing
Course Prices
Single person in a shared quadruple room
€980 including discount (Price before discount - €1200
Single person in a shared twin room
€1180 including discount (Price before discount - €1500
Single person in a private room
€1550 including discount (Price before discount - €1800
Single person in a shared twin en-suite room (Private toilet&shower)
€1800 including discount (Price before discount - €2000
Single person in a shared twin en-suite room (Private toilet&shower)
€2000 including discount (Price before discount - €2400
Early Bird Discount - Register before 14.3.2026 - receive 100 Euro discount
Included in the price
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6 days - 5 nights accommodation in a beautiful retreat center in Spain
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3 healthy tasty vegetarian meals a day
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Daily yoga sessions
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Mind opening workshops
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All other activities, workshops, and rituals
Not included
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Airfare & transportation
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Treatments (massage, etc)
* As part of our wish to support people from our community, we reserve two reduced-price spots for participants with a limited income.
** Local Spanish nationals receive an additional discount as a tribute to the land that hosts us.
*** To celebrate the opening of Terra Rosa, we are offering a discount on all our programs!
**** Offers & Discounts Can Not be combined. Pre-purchased credits are valid for full-price purchases only and cannot be applied to products already on sale.
Exclusive Combo Offer
Maximize your experience by combining this retreat with our EROS training (25-31 May 2026). Book both together and receive a 20% discount on your total booking.This special offer also applies to your two-night stay at Terra Rosa between the events, ensuring a seamless and affordable transition
Included in the price
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6 days - 5 nights accommodation in a beautiful retreat center in Spain
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3 healthy tasty vegetarian meals a day
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Daily yoga sessions
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Mind opening workshops
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All other activities, workshops, and rituals
Not included
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Airfare & transportation
-
Treatments (massage, etc)